How do you live with the pain of a continued affair? Men think that just because they haven’t had sex with anyone else you should be grateful. How can I be grateful that when my husband makes love to me he is fantasizing about some other woman, better yet some other body. I you have live with a man addicted to porn you know when he isn’t and when he is watching porn, because he doesn’t look at you when you have sex. He often can’t maintain and erection. They don’t realize that porn is a drug like any other. It effects thier lives in a way that ruins relationships just like crack.
If you love him pray for him and pray for you. Pray for stregnth and courage to get through. Theres help for him and for you. Please visit http://www.firesofdarkness.com
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April 21, 2007 at 4:22 pm
Hi everyone. I am porn addict from the age of 7, maybe. Now I am 40. The boost of my porn addiction came with the Internet, of course. I now treat myself by “the Sex Addiction Workbook”, and I write a blog about this. I go through hard times now. I need some feedbacks on my blog posts. Please, visit my blog and drop me just a few words. This will help me to continue. Maybe my blog and information about this book can help somebody here as well.
Thank you in advance.
April 21, 2007 at 4:25 pm
The link to my blog about porn addiction self-help:
http://sawlog.blogspot.com/
SAW blogger.
January 11, 2008 at 8:45 pm
Porn affects so many people, including women. Many men don’t realize the effect that porn has on them and their marriages. My girlfriends and I have a blog where we are reaching out to married Christian women, to educate them about having hotter and more meaningful sex with their husbands. We’ve heard from many women who have had issues of porn in their marriage. What is amazing, is the number of women who either view it themselves, or view it with their husbands. I should know, because I used to.
February 6, 2008 at 6:42 pm
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September 10, 2009 at 8:13 am
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Cheers! Sandra. R.